From Nathan Pearce

Clearheaded GPT

Clearheaded GPT is a custom GPT for helping people think clearly before they respond.Clearheaded GPT analyzes tense or hostile messages, strips out the emotional noise, and helps you decide if engaging is worth it... or better avoided.Brought to you by NathanPearce.co

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in the next minute or two.Just a heads up: Emails hide in Promotions sometimes. If that happens, drag it to Primary so you get all 5 lessons.See you there!

Example 1: Angry Ex-Partner / Co-Parent (Email)I’ve already explained this to you and I don’t understand why you keep acting like you’re confused.When you pick up our son, you are supposed to wait in the car. You are not permitted to come to the door, ring the bell, or announce yourself. You wait until we are ready. This was made clear.The fact that you keep ignoring this shows a complete lack of respect for boundaries. I shouldn’t have to keep spelling this out for you like a child.Don’t pretend this is about “miscommunication.” You know exactly what you’re doing, and it feels intentional at this point. I’m done being accommodating when you refuse to follow basic rules.I am documenting every time this happens. If you keep pushing this, I will take the steps necessary to make sure it stops.Do not respond defensively or try to argue. Just follow the instructions.

Example 2: Manager / Senior Leader (Slack Message)I want to be transparent about expectations here.This team operates with a high level of commitment, and that sometimes means doing what’s needed outside normal hours. That’s just part of working at this level.I’m concerned there’s been some hesitation around stepping up when things get uncomfortable. The people who grow here are the ones who show they’re team players when it counts — not just when it’s convenient.We need all hands this weekend to get this resolved. I need to know who’s fully aligned so we can plan accordingly.Also, I saw your PTO request for the extended weekend. Let’s discuss that once I’ve had a chance to see how you respond here.If this kind of push is an issue, that’s something we should probably talk about in terms of longer-term fit.

Example 3: Angry Neighbor (posting on NextDoor community app)I can’t believe this behavior.There has been constant noise from children playing outside as early as 8am, and it’s been happening over and over again. Weekends included. I don’t understand why this needs to be said, but some of us don’t want to hear screaming first thing in the morning.I’ve lived here a long time, and this kind of thing never used to be an issue. Lately it feels like basic consideration has gone out the window.Kids don’t need to be yelling outside at that hour. It’s driving me crazy. Parents should be supervising and setting limits instead of letting this go on like it’s normal.I’ve started keeping track of when this happens, and if it doesn’t stop, I’ll be calling the police. I really don’t want to have to do that, but I also shouldn’t have to put up with it.